Breast cancer is more than a diagnosis—it’s a journey of strength and transformation. In the #StrongerTogether series, we interview inspiring survivors who share their personal battles, from diagnosis to recovery and beyond. These women open up about their fears, resilience, and newfound self-love, reminding us that no one faces cancer alone. Through their stories, we hope to foster unity, hope, and empowerment within the community. Join us as we celebrate their courage and the power of being #StrongerTogether.
Joey: It happened unexpectedly—I was simply examining myself when I discovered a lump. Initially, I dismissed it as something minor, assuming it was just my body reacting in some way. However, after a medical check-up, I received the diagnosis: it was cancer. Hearing those words filled me with fear.
Joey: When I got diagnosed the second time, my first thoughts were, "Why me? Why again?" I was devastated at the thought of going through treatment again. But that devastation didn't last long. I quickly gathered myself and realized this could be a chance for a rebirth—a new chapter to live life differently. It was better to embrace this mindset than to dwell on the "whys."
Joey: There was a nine-year gap between my cancer diagnoses. I was first diagnosed at 30, with cancer in my right breast. Nine years later, it returned in my left breast. Given my age, which is considered relatively young for such diagnoses, my body has been able to recover quickly.
Joey: I underwent reconstruction on both sides, and right now, I'm going through chemotherapy.
Joey: My family and friends have been an incredible source of strength throughout this journey. They’ve been with me every step of the way—whether it’s accompanying me to hospital visits, sitting with me during treatments, or simply sharing a meal with me when I feel the need for comfort, especially since I get quite hungry during treatment. Their unwavering emotional support has helped me manage the highs and lows of this experience. I’m also deeply aware of the stress caregivers face, and I’m profoundly grateful for their love, patience, and dedication, which have meant everything to me.
Joey: I’ve started exercising a lot more now! Before, I didn’t work out much. During treatment, I had insomnia, and my doctor recommended exercise to tire me out so I could sleep better. It’s been a blessing in disguise—exercise has made me feel so much better, both mentally and physically. Even a simple walk in the park does wonders.
"Cancer won’t kill you easily. Keep a positive mindset and face it bravely—you will survive. Even with a second diagnosis, I knew I could survive. At my worst, I still made it through. Cancer has been my greatest teacher, helping me appreciate everything I have. Being thankful for what I have keeps me strong."
Joey: Support groups can be incredibly beneficial, but it’s crucial not to overload yourself with excessive information or advice. A survivor once shared some valuable wisdom with me: “Enter treatment with courage and confidence, and you’ll be fine. Avoid overwhelming yourself with all kinds of information. It’s important to find a support group that uplifts and empowers you, while also ensuring you maintain your peace of mind.
Joey: I’ve come to realise the importance of self-love. In the past, I was always focused on giving and putting others before myself. However, I now understand that loving and taking care of myself must come first. By prioritizing my well-being, I am better equipped to give to those I care about. I no longer rely on others to complete me; both physically and mentally.
Joey: Every woman desires to feel beautiful. For me, beauty used to be primarily about appearance, but now it encompasses so much more - inner strength, independence, confidence, and wisdom. I’ve learnt to rely less on external validation and to build my confidence from within. Interestingly, after my reconstruction, I've discovered a new found joy in shopping for lingerie and it makes me feel empowered.
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